RELATIONAL PSYCHODYNAMIC PSYCHOTHERAPY
Utilizing skills of self-awareness and the developing interpersonal relationship between myself and you, the client, I will offer insight into how I continue to experience you and how I am impacted by you in our sessions. I am aware that we each bring a history of how we have been formed in relationship into the expectations and perceptions we have of each other. Part of our work will be exploring these historical narratives that continue to shape interpersonal relationships in the present as they emerge in our developing relationship.
The goal is to begin to have a new experience of yourself in relationship with an Other that can positively impact how you perceive yourself and others in relationship. Additionally, as you explore how your story has shaped you in relationship, you will develop a growing awareness of when these historical narratives may be shaping how you currently perceive yourself and others in present situations.
Our earliest relationships shape our expectations and behavior in current relationships. Attachment theory describes patterns of behavior and posits how those patterns developed early in life. By building awareness of these patterns and coming to a place of self-compassion for how they developed, new ways of relating that are more congruent with what people want out of relationships can be built.
At some point in life we all wrestle with the issues that arise from our common humanity. Existential psychotherapy helps us find ways to embrace life in response to the eventuality of death, take responsibility for our freedom of choice, connect and belong despite how isolated we ultimately are from others, and live with purpose in all of the seeming meaninglessness of life.
ENNEAGRAM PERSONALITY THEORY
The Enneagram is a system to describe common groupings of how people’s personalities seem to organize. Unlike many other systems, the Enneagram isn’t just a grouping of traits, however, it is a system that describes what motivates each of us, how we respond to stress, how we move toward health and integration, and much more. Like any personality theory it has the danger of being reductionist if applied poorly to people’s individuality. I have found that in general it is a helpful starting point and tool for developing self-awareness and compassion, and grace for how others behave in relationship.
This methodology seeks to integrate past traumatic events into the narrative of our life. Trauma is a disruption that our brain never properly integrates because of how overwhelming the experience is. Using a timeline of key events in our life and the power of the imagination to enable us to find safety as we revisit our past trauma, this method helps us experience our pain, release it, see it in context, and move on.
EYE MOVEMENT DESENSITIZATION AND REPROCESSING (EMDR)
This methodology for treating trauma utilizes eye movements similar to what happens during sleeping to help the brain integrate a past experience of trauma. In this form of therapy, the therapist is in a supporting role helping the client return to their trauma and discharge the intensity of it by engaging the body’s memory integration mechanism. There is not much talking about the details of the traumatic memory, instead most of the transformation and change happens within the client’s own experiencing as the body shifts how it is affected by the traumatic memory. I am currently in the process of completing certification for EMDR.